My life has seemed to fly by since I returned from India. I got on a plane 3 days after getting back to escape to the tropical rain forest. We returned only a few days before New Year’s Eve, and then I left to go back to Denver. Everything feels rushed, and I’m being pulled in every which direction. It’s been unbelievably difficult to maintain the balance between friends and family.
Truthfully, time to myself is something that I’ve desperately needed. I haven’t been able to process India, and my thoughts come out in disconnected spurts with one leading into the next. Just the other night I began describing my time abroad to an old friend and randomly started explaining the political system (barely). Where did that come from? My head is like a swirling pensieve of memories of India.
To shed some light on the title of this blog post and the last, I really do picture myself right now as scattered pieces spread across the table of my life. I walk through my days feeling everything and nothing all at once, and I know that I made it difficult for my family when I came home. The truth is, although I’m not necessarily fully present in moments to an outsider’s perspective I am very present in my confusion. I’m left with these pieces to pick up. What do I want to bring with me? How can I incorporate the experiences and new developments of my character into my life as a member of the United States?
Unsurprisingly, I’ve also struggled with how to share my experiences with my once familiar life in the US. I’m fortunate to be such an articulate person, but I know my stories will be met with more empathy than understanding. Of course it isn’t fair to expect people to understand something they’ve never seen (and no, Slumdog Millionaire does not count). It’s just that I want to do the people I met and the country in which I lived justice. India doesn’t always have a great reputation and while some elements of that reputation are true, it in no way encompasses the beauty and love that pervades through all of India. How can I answer the questions I receive about my safety honestly while also expressing that safety was absolutely not the main focus of my time in India? I neither want to confirm nor deny the suspicions and expectations that people had for my time in India.
And so my journey through time continues in the frigid Denver winter. (It was 1º on Sunday night!!) It’s quite alarming and simultaneously comforting to be back at school, though I’d forgotten what it felt like to walk around and not see many strangers passing me on the sidewalk.
Today I miss fresh fruit stands, and the sunshine and warmth of India.